My Fullest Name
Overview
This activity is designed to be used during the first week or two of classes, to start building rapport amongst students, especially within their teams. Students are asked to answer a series of questions about their name. The goal of this activity is to share histories, cultural stories, and cultivate interpersonal understanding. It’s a non-confrontational way to show difference that requires no “us vs them” dynamics. There’s also an opportunity for people to ask questions and make conversation after everyone in the group has the chance to talk about their Fullest Name.
Useful for
- Students to consider their own identity and share information about themselves with their teams
- Begin to form a connection between teammates
- Share the purpose of the activity, orally and in writing. Also, explain that the activity is to help the students to begin to form communities within their teams.
- Model the activity by sharing the story of your own name(s) – see prompts below.
- Break students into teams and invite students to tell their teammates the story of their name(s). Give students the following prompts:
- Who gave you your name? Why that name?
- Do you know the origin of your name?
- Do you have two names? One in your mother tongue, one in English? Can you write your mother tongue name for your team mates?
- Do you have any nicknames? If so, how did you get them?
- What is your preferred name?
- What are your preferred pronouns?
The main goal of the assignment is to connect with students, and that can’t happen if students don’t feel safe or comfortable. It is important to be transparent about expectations and specify that there is no obligation to share anything personal and that there will be no repercussions if they opt to say very little. Again, remind students that this exercise is simply to allow them to share whatever they wish to about themselves and to start connecting with their teammates. When you introduce the activity, underline, repeatedly, that they only need share what they are comfortable sharing.
Students may not know the answers to all the questions about their names. If they are curious, they can use their phones to look up information. If they would rather not disclose information or if the discussion becomes triggering, they can be invited to pass or to even take a break from the class.
Students may find themselves uncomfortable with their team or may worry because their team mates might be reticent to share. Try encouraging students to give it time and to come chat with you if the same problems are occurring in a few weeks’ time, once the team has spent more time working together.
- 20-30 minutes
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